The Elite Forum
Nonsense Time => FFA => Topic started by: RWG on October 15, 2015, 07:54:53 am
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Mate, look, I know we're not on good terms right now. But tonight someone pointed me towards your Twitter and anyone (in the world) can see you're going through some shit right now. Your Twitter is just extremely dark and if you're really feeling bad, you need this link:
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
A lot of us have been where you are before, I could feel your pain reading through the past month of your tweets. We all have our own ways of coping with this shit, some healthy, some not. My really negative posting is my way of dealing with it (as I wrote in another thread here yesterday.) I'm sorry if it really offended you. Sometimes I forget that there are newer people here who haven't dealt with my shit for 10 years and can't brush it off as "goose being goose." Many of us too have had women do all sorts of terrible things to us. A piece of advice I definitely have is that tweeting out things like "guess I'm never getting laid ever again" is more or less the worst thing you can do atm. Tweeting unflattering selfies saying "guess no one wants to date me ever again" is just awful. This is the absolute least healthy way to deal with things, to put yourself down in a public place an open your pain to the world which doesn't seem to care. I implore you to find a different way to cope.
When you're feeling super down, get into Mumble or something. (I'm usually not in there if that helps.) We've all been through shit, we all talk it out, we help each other. That's why this community is so great. I think a lot of us are at a point right now, especially with the changing of the seasons and seasonal depression coming in and all, where we all just need a good talk and a good cry.
I understand that I'm probably someone you looked up to when you first discovered GE, I think you subscribed and stuff, so I'm sorry if I'm no longer this perfect image of a great, cool dude you once knew. As we grow older and mature, we see that so many things we let ourselves believe in this world were just illusions. We chose to let our minds see things a certain way that makes us happy, when really happiness can only come from within.
Things WILL get better. They always do! So long as you stay alive and stay breathing. Sometimes when I have a really awesome day, I think back to the times I was at my lowest, the months, the years of darkness, and I realize it was all worth going through, just to get to that wonderful day. It's worth it. And one last thing. Your past mistakes don't make you damaged, or broken, or useless, or a failure. They make you wiser, and better, and clean.
I hope things are better for you soon,
Goose
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Why don't you tell him in a private message instead of posting this sensitive stuff on a public board?
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"All the horrible feelings, all the setbacks, all the nights trembling in fear and confusion, they are all necessary parts of your path. All of the devastating losses, all of the moments deep in sorrow and anguish, all of the pain and torture of your past living in animal bodies, all the negative experiences, they are all necessary parts of the immortal journey. Life uses the trials and the hardships to help us learn, to help us see the way to true life. We are being guided toward the realization that the truth is the only way to true fulfillment. Most of our millions of years of evolution was/is balancing cycles meant to show us what does not work, what does not result lasting fulfillment, what does not lead all the way to true life. We have learned more from mistakes and failures than anything else. To be able to see and accept true life, we must evolve to know that the truth is the only remaining option, after all other paths have dissolved in failure through our trying, after all other options have blown off of our souls like sands by the winds of our awareness."
You will keep postponing the only really important thing and go along all the paths that leads to failure and suffering, until you see that the only remaining option you have left to take, is the path to ever lasting fulfillment. The truth.
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Why don't you tell him in a private message instead of posting this sensitive stuff on a public board?
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Why don't you tell him in a private message instead of posting this sensitive stuff on a public board?
His twitter is public, so what does that accomplish?
I dont disagree with this thread. Goose was thinking Twiii might send an aggressive private message as a reply but if it was posted on the forums there would be less chance of that.
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Why don't you tell him in a private message instead of posting this sensitive stuff on a public board?
His twitter is public, so what does that accomplish?
I dont disagree with this thread. Goose was thinking Twiii might send an aggressive private message as a reply but if it was posted on the forums there would be less chance of that.
His Twitter might be public, but routing people into seeing it from here, while also displaying these private matters instead of using something more respectful and appropriate like a PM, isn't something that can be regarded as either respectful OR appropriate. What Twiii posts to his Twitter is his business, but spreading it further through the internet via the boards is NOT ours/ Goose's business. Shit topic, either way you look at it, it's inappropriate and pretty awful.
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all of the pain and torture of your past living in animal bodies
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In response to those criticizing me posting this on the forum instead of a PM:
Twii hates me. If I PM him, he glances at it, gets enraged, deletes it, gives it no respect. By posting it here, I am doing a few things;
a) making others who he is friends with or respects aware of the situation so they can be of help
b) get people discussing this particular instance so they will ask Twii about it, which is exactly what he needs right now
c) opening the discussion to anyone having problems right now
If I send a PM, none of these things happen. These are people's lives we're talking about here, and if just one life is saved by this thread, then it's completely worth it.
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Dude like my balls shrunk and I could barely get my dick up after a low fat high carb vegan diet, so ya what could possibly be worse than that? It's all good, I don't see any problem with talking openly about problems and this is not even that openly anyways, would be different if there was media involved and shit but I understand if people wanna keep some stuff to themselves.
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You don't use your dick anyway :nesquik:
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not having a GF doesn't mean you don't use your dick